Introducing a newborn baby to an older sibling is one of those truly magical parenting moments—watching your children meet for the first time, knowing they’ll (hopefully!) be by each other’s side for a lifetime. It’s a moment full of emotion, excitement, and often, a few nerves too.
Many families begin preparing their older child during pregnancy, talking to them about the baby growing in mum’s belly and explaining the special role they’ll play as a big brother or sister. Reading books together about becoming a sibling can be a great way to help them understand what to expect, and to spark conversation about their feelings.
When it comes time for that first meeting, every family will do it a little differently. Some invite siblings to the hospital shortly after birth, while others wait until they’re back home and settled. There’s no right or wrong—it’s all about what feels right for you and your family.
A sweet idea that many parents love is giving the older sibling a little gift “from the baby.” It’s a simple gesture, but it can go a long way in helping your older child feel seen, loved, and included during such a big transition.
Most importantly, remember that this is a big change for your older child. Making them feel like an important part of the baby’s arrival—whether through cuddles, special one-on-one time, or little jobs like helping choose the baby’s outfit, grabbing a nappy, or singing a lullaby—can help build a beautiful bond from the very beginning.
Every sibling story begins differently, but with a little love and patience, yours will unfold just the way it’s meant to.
